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Get To Know Me

Wednesday 9 November 2016

I've published a few posts now, so hopefully you'll have started to understand who I am and what I'm about (Though there's more to me than Autumn and Gilmore Girls I Promise).

Apparently it takes four years to get to know someone inside out, but here are five facts about me to help you get a head start in getting to know me now.

I have a degree in Fashion Writing and Culture. 
Before University I used to spend my evenings after school watching The Hills...long story short, I wanted to be Lauren Conrad so bad. I was good at writing, and had a HUGE desire to work within the fashion industry - so applied for this course and got in! I loved every part of my degree and know it will come in useful for my future career goals.

I live with my boyfriend of six and a half years. 
I met Scott in my first week of University, when we got together a year after being friends I had no idea that we'd still be together nearly seven years later. He's my best friend.

I speak fluent Welsh. 
I was born in North West Wales and I lived there with my family until I was 18. I now live in Watford, Hertfordshire but I snap up the chance to recharge my batteries at home with my family at any chance I get. There's something about the mountains, fresh air and small tight knit community that you just can't beat.

My favourite cocktail is an Amaretto Sour.
What can I say? I love cherry bake-wells.

I love watching documentaries on serial killers.
I find it so easy to get hooked on documentaries on serial killers, murderers etc. I don't know the exact reason why, I think I like learning about how they think and their motives behind their crimes. Anyone with me on this?

There we have it, five (random) facts about me. I'd love to find out if I'm not the most murderer obsessed person on the planet...so feel free to leave your thoughts below. 😏

A Gilmore girl at Heart

Tuesday 1 November 2016

Though this is only my second post, I'm really enjoying blogging so far. I'm loving the feeling of being able to share my thoughts with you guys, and am already finding that I'm whacking my phone out at every possible occasion to 'take photos for my blog'.

I can't help but feel that steering my enthusiasm is the fact that it's now (finally) Autumn. The leaves are falling in all shades of orange imaginable; scarves and hats are becoming a must; the True Entertainment Christmas channel is available on BT; and I'm a regular again at the Starbucks next door to the office at work. 

For a few weeks (since September began to be precise) I've been re-watching some old episodes of Gilmore girls. I love how in Gilmore girls it almost always seems to be autumn. Most of the episodes I've watched have come hand in hand with crisp leaves, scarves, pumpkins, plenty of coffee and crocheted blankets - and I can't get enough of it. If there's one thing you must know about me early on, its that I'm a Gilmore girl at heart.

Don't you just love how Gilmore Girls always seems to look like it has an orange overlay on it? 
Why? 

1. I love my family to pieces. They are my main priority. 

2. I'm driven and career orientated. 

3. I wear my heart on my sleeve...and don't regret it. Those who love deeply never die old. 

4. I'm a brunette. Surely that counts for something?

5. I love movie nights, and of course takeouts are most welcome. 

If you haven't seen Gilmore Girls before, they actually have the whole collection on Netflix right now - and the sooner you can start watching the better, as the revival will be here soon! It might take you a short while to get used to the fast paced dialogue but as soon as you do get into it you won't want to stop watching. 


Anyway, now you know. I like love Autumn, and am looking forward to posting to my blog throughout the next couple of months. 


26 Thing's I've learnt at 26.

So, this is officially my first post, and I feel like it's a nice one.

I've changed so much in the last five to six years and wanted to share 26 things I've learnt at 26 to see if any of them resonate with other people on the blogosphere. I would love to read your comments, so feel free to let me know your thoughts.

1. Go at your own pace. 

Like many of you, I've found myself in situations where relatives and family friends have asked me:
"When are you getting engaged?"; "Will you be getting married in the next few years?"; "Where are you going to buy a house?"; "Have you talked about babies yet?"

...in most of these situations I've found myself repeating these questions to myself and worrying if these are ideals that I should be aspiring to at this point in my life. Well they're not, and one thing I've learnt this year is that you really need to just go at your own pace. It's OK if you're thinking about these things, but equally it's okay if you're not.  Go at your own pace, life isn't a race - it's a journey.

2. Celebrate your interests. 

I spent so many of my junior years hiding hobbies and wearing clothes I thought would make me cool. Looking back, I can see I had my own style (might not have been the coolest) but why on earth did I hide it?

I love knitting, blogging and crafting and I (often) prefer nights in with my boyfriend over drunken nights out. That doesn't make me boring - that makes me who I am.

3. You are what you eat. Really. 

I'm a curvy size 16-18 and far from a health freak but I've noticed a real difference in my hair; skin; energy levels and mood from living off a healthy diet. I've slipped off track recently but plan to get back to healthy eating and exercise soon.

4. Don't hang onto bad friendships.

The friends who make you doubt yourself. Those who put you in the shadows to put themselves in the spotlight. You don't need them, and five years down the line you won't be sorry they're gone. That's a fact.

5. Don't let people treat you badly. 

Ever. There are billions of people in this world, so why settle for the ones who make you feel underappreciated?

6. Don't judge others. 
The rule I go by is: If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. You gain nothing by judging others - and at the end of the day we're all trying to do our best to get by. So what's the point?

7. Listen to your mother - she's right, 99.9% of the time.
You know what I'm talking about... 

8. Believe in yourself, and make your dreams happen. 

No one is going to give you your dream job/body/life out of nowhere. You have to believe in yourself and make it happen. (You go girl).

9. There is value to be had from planning. 

A life plan might be a bit excessive, but spending a few hours on a Sunday catching up with ironing; preparing clothes and meals for the week ahead; getting a head start on work really makes the world of difference. Stress - be gone.

10. It's OK to splash out on good bed linen from time to time. 

Be cosy. Have a lie in. Enjoy your time in bed.

11. Do what makes you happy. 

Do you love collecting conkers? Spend your weekends rehearsing for bake off? Perhaps you like to run? Or maybe your thing is shopping? Whatever it is, as long as you're not killing anyone, do what makes you happy. Life's too short.

12. Go for regular haircuts.

Going for a regular trim DOES make your hair grow faster. It's okay to spend money on your hair - you work for your money and you deserve it.

13. Find the products that work on your hair and stick to them.

If you're like me and use a lot of heat on your hair, find a good heat protection serum and use it as though you have an endless supply. I'm banking on this helping my hair retain its condition

14. It's bad manners to have a bad manicure. 

I can't remember who said it, but I certainly agree that it's bad manners to have a bad manicure. What's £20 every few weeks to keep your claws looking flawless?

15. Pay your bills. All of them.

Always remember to pay to your bills. When you have your finances in order everything else just seems to work.

16. Surround yourself with positive people. 

17. Smile more. It will make you happier. 

It's true. Smiling is contagious - and will make you feel better about the day ahead.

18. Make time for family. 

Life is hectic and being an adult is hard, but always make time for your family.

19. Not everyone will like you. 

We all want to be accepted, but the truth is that not everyone will like you. This is okay, because you know how amazing you are, and understand that not everyone will be your cup of tea - as much as you won't be theirs.

20. Don't showcase personal drama. 

Posting a status that throws shade at your ex? Having a dig at someone who annoyed you on twitter? It's not worth the drama. They're not worth the drama. You don't have the time. Take a step away from your phone/laptop/tablet, take a deep breath, and continue with your day.

21. Look after number one. 

I think it's a great idea to set yourself goals. In fact I would actually list that can be split between both your professional and personal life. Goals provide direction. Just remember to keep them realistic and attainable.

22. It's OK to be wrong from time to time. 

You're 26. You're not the Dalai Lama. There will be plenty of things you don't know at this point in time, and when you find yourself in this situation just ask someone nearby. (Or Google it).

23. Go for Quality not Quantity when it comes to friends.

I have few friends (who are mainly my sisters), but I wouldn't swap them for 200 friends if I had the chance. It's unlikely they would understand my love for crochet and serial killer documentaries. My friends (and sisters) accept me for who I am and are the best bunch I could ask for.

24. Things can always get better. 

When you're living pay-check to pay-check, wishing you had money to start saving for a mortgage, and wallowing in self pity because you've nothing better to do remember that things can always get better when you work at them. If you can't fix your issues find a way to work around them.

25. Learn from your mistakes. 

We all make mistakes, I personally have made plenty of them. But that's growing up. Learning from your mistakes will make sure you're on point and ready for stuff the second time around.

26. You're amazing and you're destined for great things. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. 

Peace out x